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Reporting Abuse : It’s Never your Fault

Nacham Bereavement

The victim is not the one to blame. It is the person who did the crime.



“Any form of assault can be very traumatic. It can be hard to speak out. Always remember what happened was wrong. Whether or not you report, remember, you are not to blame. This is the first step to healing.  Reporting is one way to remind yourself just how incredible you are.  There is no perfect way to be a victim!  Whatever you choose to do, know that you are brave and you are strong.  No one can take away your power.”


Getting Help

You can go to:

  1. The police first
  2. The hospital first
  3. A trusted adult to take you to the hospital/police station
  4. A friend/peer first to connect you to a trusted adult.


Choose what works for you! We recommend going to the hospital first – ideally within 24-72 hours – to get emergency medical treatment and begin the process of reporting.


In both places, you have a right to:


Immediately after the assault

“Don’t try and force the victim to trust you, this takes time. It is better to try and find someone who can talk on his/her behalf in case he/she is too shy or afraid.” – Fred Otieno, Lawyer, Legal Resource Foundation


Ways to preserve evidence

There are ways to save evidence that may help bring the assaulter to justice.


At the Hospital

  1. At the hospital, a doctor or clinical officer will ask you questions about the sexual assault.  Answer them as honestly and completely as you can.
  2. A doctor or clinical officer will examine your whole body and take samples of your blood and urine.
  3. You will also be given emergency treatment (PEP) to help protect against HIV, other sexually transmitted infections, and pregnancy.
  4. If you reported the sexual assault to the police before going to the hospital, you should have received a P3 form, which will be completed and signed by the doctor or clinical officer.
  5. If you have not yet reported the assault to the police or do not have a P3 form, the doctor or clinical officer will record the medical information on a “PRC1” form (Post Rape Care form) and sign the form.  There will be three copies of form PRC1, a white copy for you, a yellow copy to be given to the police and a green copy that will be kept by the hospital.
  6. You can then go to the police station to finish your reporting



  1. The police will make a record of the report in the occurrence book (OB) and you will then be given an OB number.
  2. The police will ask you questions about the assault and you should answer the questions honestly and completely. The police may ask you some questions that may be hard for you to talk about. Take your time and do your best.
  3. The police may also write down what you tell them and ask you to sign it at the bottom. This is called a “written statement”.  Read it carefully.  Before you sign it, be sure it correctly states what you told them. Your guardian will also sign it to support your statement.
  4. The police will complete a form called a “P3” form. This is a medical form.  It is important to get this form.  The police give it to you.  You should not be asked to pay for the form.  You should not offer to pay to get the form.  It is free.  If you are not given a P3 form, you should ask for one.
  5. If you have not already been to the hospital, you will need to go to the hospital with the P3 form, which will be completed by a doctor or a clinical officer.
  6. If you went to the hospital before going to the police station, the hospital should have given you a PRC1 form.  You should bring that form to the police station and give it to the police.  They will attach it to the P3 form.
  7. As a minor, you may lack identification such as a birth certificate. If you have it, you should bring it with you to the police station. If not, your trusted adult can help you with this paperwork.


“When a victim comes here, They deserve to be helped… [They] shouldn’t be shouted at because they didn’t want to be victimised. They shouldn’t be hurried. I speak to them patiently so they feel they have been helped.” – Caroline Nentaya, Police Officer, Gender Desk, Rueben Police Post.


Survivors’ examinations occur at a pace that they are comfortable with and can not be forced to be examined. They must be counseled first and given all the information about the examination beforehand Dr. Kizzie Shako, Police Surgeon, Forensic and Pathology Services.


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